Thursday, February 16, 2017

Lovers Writing Game

Want to do some fun inquiry with your romantic partner or best friend and see if you are on the same page?  


For Valentines, on our 4 year anniversary, we laid in the sun on lounge chairs on black lava, with a lovely view of a palm tree lined coastline, the War on Drugs playing out of the speakers and humpback whales blowing and playing right in front of us. Then I handed Aaron a notebook and made up these questions.  We had so much fun and revealed some things we never talk about and it was so great to experience how well we know eachother and how aligned we are in the values we share.  It also brought us closer in a way we want to support each other.  Even with a best friend - I highly recommend it.

The rules:
1. write it down
2.  each get a pen and paper
3. then ask the first question, you each write it down
4. then ask the second question, you each write it down
5. trade notebooks
6. read each other's answers out loud
7. repeat with rest of questions
8. have even more glee and love for eachother because you are so grateful to be so understood!

QUESTIONS FOR YOUR LOVEY

1. What are 3 things I want to do with my lovey?
2.  What are 3 things I want to change about my lovey?

3. What does Grace mean to you (or insert personal relevant word or theme in your life)?
4. What do I want to embody more of in my life?


5. In our years of knowing each other, what have you learned about love?
6. What are 3 things I wish I did every week that I don't do now?

7. What are 3 of my worst fears right now?
8. What are 3 things I'd love to learn and have mastery over immediately?



9. What are 3 legacies I would like to leave behind and be known for when I depart this world?
10. What 3 things in our relating have changed my life?

These are just prompts - of course, get creative, but it's a good starting point and gets you on the same page swiftly.

Enjoy!



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